What Do Women Like In Men? Sounds Obvious, But Isn't

There are a lot of ideas being thrown around about how attraction between the opposite sexes works, but a large part of it is simply misplaced and confusing. It's simply such a complex process and you can easily get the wrong idea about it if you're simply THINKING about it and not actually experiencing it.

What DO women find attractive? The biggest myth is that for you as a man, looking good is what gives you the biggest opportunities with women. Also, you probably have seen that we guys are collectively obsessed over having big pecs, biceps, abs (see, we even have nicknames for them!). Now listen to me - having a handsome face isn't the thing that builds deep attraction to you in a woman. Yes, it does create the initial interest – however, without attraction nothing will happen.

Talking from my own experience – I consider myself moderately attractive and have been complimented by women on my looks. And I know that before I learned how to be successful with women, I was getting plenty of interest from women but nothing ever went down. I had low self-esteem, was totally unconfident and actually a bit afraid of women. So my looks didn't matter.

The game is all about how you behave and how you hold yourself – how you live your life, interests, your communication style, whether you are social and have a lot going on, what your values are, humor, and so on. Those are the things that make women run after you. Out of all those, I would name self-confidence as the biggest factor. Mix confidence with humor and you get an unbeatable combination.

If you're interested in finding a partner for yourself, want to go out with new women every week or maybe you simply want to have the feeling inside that you CAN do it and are a valuable person, that’s what you need to be working on first and foremost.

By the way - the thing with big muscles: it can't hurt. But it must be done the right way. Being handsome is one thing, but taking good care of yourself and doing something about how you look is another.

By: Joshua Egidio

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To read about how my own personal journey with becoming a confident man has gone so far and how it is that I now am able to confidently meet new women, then this is just the right article for you: What Do Women Find Attractive. -Joshua Egidio