We all know that sexy is an attitude. It is the way that a woman carries herself, presents herself. It is the way that she moves, the way she tosses her hair, the fire in her eyes that let you know just what is on her mind. But put her in a little satin, lace or silk and she can take sexiness over the top. Lingerie most definitely makes a woman sexy, but it makes an already sexy woman smoking hot!
So what is sexy? Is is sexy lingerie? Bustiers? G-strings? How about mesh panties? While all of these are, indeed, sexy, it is the woman, her attitude and how she feels in what she wears that makes it truly sexy. And, yes, while lingerie is definitely there for the very visual male to enjoy, it is the woman who carries it off.
Men are visual creatures. They enjoy looking at a sexy woman. The enjoy the heightened sensuality of seeing their woman dressed in something seductive. For many men, there is nothing sexier than their woman, dressed in a babydoll and panties or maybe a bustier and lace thong. He knows that she is dressed that way just for him and that drives him wild. Most men do love their women in lingerie, it gives way to naughty fantasies and sensual pleasures.
Women, however, enjoy lingerie as well, but for different reasons. When a woman puts on a pair of mesh panties or a sexy g-string, she begins to feel sexy. Even if she wears a sexy pair of ribbon panties under her business suit and only she knows they are there, she still feels sexy. She still feels sensual.
When a woman presents herself to her man, and he knows what she is wearing under all those clothes, it is extremely sensual for him to undress her. As he removes her clothing, he treats each area of skin he uncovers as a wonderful treasure, savoring it fully. He delights at the discovery of the lingerie that she has on as a special surprise for him and he does not tear it off of her, but instead removes it gently and sensually to enjoy the moment, but get to the prize that resides beyond.
That is sexy.
So lingerie plays a large part in creating the atmosphere of sexiness, but it is the attitudes of the people involved, that indeed drive the sexiness factor over the top. Whether it's lace thongs or sexy bustiers or naughty garters, when the woman has the right attitude, it isn't the lingerie that makes the woman, but the woman who makes the lingerie. The lingerie is just the icing on top. And that is what is truly sexy.
