When Someone Has Broken Your Heart – What Are Your Options?
When someone breaks your heart, your heart probably never saw it coming. You thought it would never happen. It never crossed your mind. But now your head is spinning, trying to figure out what happened, and where you go from here.
You two were like one…always together. Your lives intertwined to such an extent that it would be impossible to separate them…or so it seemed. How can this be happening? And now you have to do the impossible…go on without him. Or do you?
When someone breaks your heart, often times we don't stop to think that you have options here. Just because he says that he wants to break up doesn't mean that it's got to be that way. Just because your lives were intertwined doesn't mean that you can't think and act independently.
So, what are your options? First, you can take what he said at face value, and decide to do nothing. Just say, "You want to break up? Okay, it's done…we're done". Then all you have to do is decide "what next?" And that is a question a lot of people never get beyond.
Of course, the other option you have is to reject the idea of a breakup, and figure out a way to make up again.
If you choose the second option, you must first realize that making up doesn't happen unless both parties want it to happen. He just broke up with you, so indications are that he does not want a make up to happen, or else he would not have broken up in the first place. So your challenge is to figure out how to get him to want you back. Just like so many difficult things in life, easy to do if you know what to do. The steps to getting him back are easy to do if you know what to do. Chances are that you have an idea or two about what you should do to get him back, but in all likelihood your idea(s) would be exactly wrong.
Thank goodness for people like T ‘Dub’ Jackson who came up with a step by step guide you can get at www.MakeUpFromBreakUp.com. It tells you what to do, and when to do it and just as important, what not to do. And it comes with a money back guarantee. Don’t mess up your make up. Make the right moves when someone has broken your heart.
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