When the average guy thinks of bisexual women or having threesomes, he’s only thinking about the sexual fulfillment that he will get out of it.
And, while this is understandable to some extent, this kind of thinking is exactly what drives most women away from men. It virtually guarantees that these men will never be able to experience a threesome (unless they pay for it, which in my opinion, is something only a ‘boy’ would do… not a man.)
Also, most guys are only excited over the ‘idea’ of sleeping with 2 (or more) women at the same time. They are not ready to handle the reality of such a scenario. They would actually choke or freeze under the pressure.
Most importantly, men don’t take the time to learn about, and understand, anything about a bisexual (or bi-curious) woman (since they’re only after one thing) so they’re not able to relate to a bisexual woman in any way whatsoever.
Imagine going to a foreign land and trying to befriend the natives of that land without having any idea of their culture, lifestyle, beliefs, perspectives, thought processes, or even their native language!
And, I’m only talking about ‘befriending’ the natives, not getting them to sleep with you! ;-)
You don’t have to be a genius to figure out that such a task would be extremely difficult, if not impossible, for most people to accomplish.
And, yet, this is exactly what most men try to do when interacting with a bisexual woman. In fact, most men aren’t even sure if the woman they’re chatting with is bisexual or not. They’re simply shooting in the dark.
While all of the above is going on, it is clearly visible to the woman that the guy has no clue what he’s doing. She also assumes – quite accurately – that the guy does not much care about her and is only interested in ‘checking off’ one of his favorite, unfulfilled fantasies.
It is no wonder that guys get nowhere with women, when using the above approach.
