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Why Seek An International Relationship
In college I dated a few women who were all pretty crazy in the head. They all seemed like normal women at first, but they all turned out to be totally psycho! I could never understand it. I was a nice, honest, hard working guy who was looking for a nice girl to spoil. I remember one girl in particular, who I dated for two years. She ended up cheating on me 3 times, and lying about it to me for a whole year. One day we are hanging out and she just randomly breaks down and drops the news on me. As you can imagine, like anyone who has gone through this, it destroys your life at the time. I invested 2 years of my life into this woman, and one night with a few too many drinks and an ex-boyfriend, it is destroyed. Dating in college left a bad taste in my mouth. I got out of college single man. I had no idea how to find a woman. Since I was pretty career minded, I spent a lot of effort working on starting a business. I didn’t have time to go out to bars and clubs to meet women. I don’t like drinking that much and most of the bar scene women bore me with how similar they are. I go crazy when I hear the famous line “I’m into partying, shopping, hanging out with friends, and movies!” Great, you and every other woman I have met. I mind as well go talk to myself. I wanted to meet a woman who was interesting, intelligent, unique, and of course beautiful. The problem was that I didn’t know where to look. I then decided to try online dating by signing up for eHarmony. Big mistake! I get a bunch of profile matches back that look promising, oddly though, none of them have pictures. Weird I thought. I have my picture posted. I start talking to a bunch of these girls. I get to know them a bit. Then they send me a picture. Now I know where the world’s weirdest, ugliest, and fattest people go to find love. No offense to these people, but you should at least try to take care of yourself. If you don’t respect yourself, why would any self-respecting man respect you? I may not be the world’s most attractive man, but I take care of myself, work out, eat right, and actually care about physical appearance. I expect the same form a woman. I’ve got news for you ladies, men fall in love through their eyes. Beautiful means different things to different men, but each of us has that ideal for what we think is an attractive woman. If we men are not at least somewhat attracted to a woman, it is going to be a long miserable life. A woman needs to at least take care of herself and be beautiful in her own unique way. So basically, after 2 months on eHarmony, I was literally scarred away! I ran into the same problems with sites like Match.com. I decided to move on. I finally gave up and stopped caring. Then, suddenly, the revelation hit me. I was talking to a friend one day and he mentioned to me that I should expand my horizons and look abroad. There are literally over a billion fish in the sea he told me. I was limiting myself. It was a crazy idea at first, but I decided I should try to make some female friends abroad and test the waters. I figured I’d see what happens. There was nothing to lose! I started researching international dating and it really started appealed to me. I signed up for some international dating websites and started corresponding with women just to test the waters. I also grabbed a fantastic international dating guide that really helped me understand what is needed to succeed in an international relationship. After about 2 weeks of corresponding with various women across the globe, I bumped into this amazing girl from Russia who really captivated my interests. I started corresponding with her a lot, we exchanged phone numbers and I got her email address too. We talked for a few months and then she came to the USA to get her graduate degree. I went to meet her, and we fell in love instantly. All I can say is that she is so much more amazing than any woman I’ve even dared to dream of. We’ve been dating about a year and we just got engaged. I couldn’t be happier. So, to single guys out there, just maybe, you should start thinking about expanding your options. You do have them! Why consider dating international: 1. Cultural differences are interesting and exciting 2. Foreign women seem to be, in my experience, much smarter than the average western girl. Not to mention they are a lot more cultured and interesting on average. 3. They have traditional family values and high morals. 4. They are less materialistic than western women. 5. Foreign women generally take care of themselves better and are in better shape than western women. 6. They are feminine. They actually want to be treated like women. Sadly, not one of my ex-girlfriends could even cook macaroni and cheese. How to do it: 1. Get a good international dating guide. This will save you lots of time and effort. 2. Do a bit of research on the industry. 3. Find a legitimate international dating website like Anastasia International (or just google “meet ______ women” or “date _____ women” depending on what kind of women you want to meet) 4. Look for women who peak your interest and speak decent English. 5. Correspond. Get to know some women. See if it is for you. 6. Meet. 7. With a little luck, enjoy your life! Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com |
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