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Worry Of The Negative Thinking Getting You Down? Let Us Look On The Bright Side For A Change

How many times have I been a victim of negative thinking? During my childhood when my sister would say "Hey you are singing off-key!" or "Hey you dance like a stick!" Those words put a dark cloud over my childhood dreams of becoming a singer or a dancer. As I grow older, I still suffered from negative thinking, in school from my teachers "Your story is not good enough, sorry, you will never make it as a writer" or from my parents "You are going to be a writer? There is no money in that". And once again my dreams are doused with cold water. So as I grow older, I go for what is safe, and conforms to what everybody expects me to be. Have an 8am to 5pm job, get my salary every 30th of the month. I became ensconced in mundane life of a working girl, giving up my dreams and my passion.

Negative thinking is a life destroyer, a slayer of dreams. But how can we arm ourselves against this destroyer? It is a tough battle but this destroyer is beatable. First we must look within ourselves and find our true self-worth. Nobody knows ourselves better than us, right? We have been living with ourselves since birth. So what if I sing off-key? It does not matter as long as I sing from my heart and with all sincerity. So what if I dance like a stick? As long as I dance with complete abandon and enjoy the moment, who cares? My writing may not have been good enough then but with practice I am now publishing 20 articles a week, and who cares about the money, I do not need that much money, just enough to let me live comfortably is just fine with me.

Once you have gone deep within yourselves and found what really matters to you, no amount of negative thinking from friends, relatives and even strangers will be able to dampen your spirit.

Passion is the ultimate nemesis of negative thinking. If we have passion in our goals and aspirations, no amount of negative thinking surrounding us will stop us from pursuing our dreams. Those negative thinkers are just afraid that we will achieve our dreams because they did not have the courage and the desire to pursue theirs. Let them see the cup as half-empty as they never had the spirit to raise it to half-full. These negative thinkers became soulless individuals travelling the world without passion and dreams.

Do not become like them, it is never to late to start living your life with passion, to start pursing your dreams and to be happy! Remember, we ourselves are the only keepers of the key to happiness and self-fulfillment, do not let the worry of the world around you bring you down.

By: Quentin Williams

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