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You Can’t Hurry Love: Is This Going Anywhere?
How do you know she is right for you? Will he tell you he cares, will he show you he cares or will he only tell others he wants you in his life? Timing is everything in a relationship. Some people take time to let things develop before making any serious commitments, while others jump right in and grab the bull by the horns. How do you tell what they are thinking? If you're not going at the same pace, there could be a clash. The truth of the matter is you're ready when you're ready and not a moment before. Try to let the relationship evolve at a natural pace without bulldozing ahead just because you're “primed” or imposing too many expectations on whether or not this can last forever. Sometimes it can start off hot and heavy, but later you find out you're totally wrong for each other. Or you can start dating someone who may not be your usual type, but over time you fall for him anyway. Give it time to develop and you could be surprised. Dating is about getting to know other people as much as it is about getting to know yourself and the type of person you are looking for. You may date someone who had all of your “must haves” and then realize that the “must haves” are not what you are looking for. Like wise, that person you said is “So not my type,” may end up being just the one for you. It is said that a person will date 100 people before finding the one. If it does seem like you are both into each other there are sure tell signs that things they feel the same way. You Have Passed Go: Sail Away with Your Sweetheart Along the way there will be lots of positive signs if things are progressing nicely. • You can't stop thinking about each other when you're apart. • He asks you what you would like, then does it. • She can make you laugh and lift your spirits. • He is caring and considerate, asks for and listens to your opinions and feelings. • You communicate easily and can talk about a variety of things. • You work together to solve problems. • You accept each other's differences and can agree to disagree without resentment. • She is an independent thinker and has her own thoughts and opinions, not just agreeing with yours. • He is open and comfortable talking about himself. • She is a well-adjusted, balanced person with a full, interesting life. • You respect, admire and appreciate each other. Warning Signs: Promptly Hit the Reject Button • One of you makes all the effort to make plans. • Her attention is inconsistent. • She breaks dates often or cancels at the last minute. • He doesn't call when he says he will, is frequently late or doesn't show up at all. • He answers every cell phone call, regardless of where you are. • He prefers spending time on the golf course with his buddies over taking you out. • His eyes are wandering around the room checking out other women. • She drinks more than three alcoholic beverages in an evening. • He has controlling behavior, is angry or jealous and wants everything to go his way. • She is neurotic about money and counts every penny, or is a compulsive spender and blows large sums of money frequently. • He is dishonest or is reluctant to open up about past relationships. • She is a loner and has no one in her life but you. Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Visit It's Just Lunch Miami for further dating information. |
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