Okay, so your boyfriend dumped you, you're freaking out and you don't know what to do next. You're no longer happy, you don't go out with friends anymore, you're sitting at home moping and crying. You want your ex boyfriend back but how do you do it? There is hope to be reunited.
The first thing you should do is take a little bit of time for yourself and try to logically figure this situation out. You see, when most couples break up most of the time they don't ever remember why. You should try to remember what situation triggered this incident. You should know by now how most men are, they will give you those lame excuses such as, it's not you baby it's me. Or something like, I just need some space. Sometimes they will even try to put the blame on you by saying you crowd him too much. Give me a break!
Unfortunately for most of us, we drown in despair and become secluded inside four walls. But, after taking a little bit of time in solitude and deciding that enough is enough, and you decide that you want your ex boyfriend back, let's take some of the following steps to get the process going.
Here are some examples of what not to do. Right after the breakup you should never show your ex-boyfriend that you will do anything it takes to stay with him. You should not beg him to keep you, you should not tell him that you will change for him. That is the worst thing that you can do.
You see, ex-boyfriend's are kind of funny. What most women don't understand is that most men want what they can't have. After the breakup, if you make yourself less available that may stir up a little more interest in you from him. You should make sure that you are seen out with your friends, having fun, going to the movies and just being yourself.
Do not call him, do not text message him, do not make a nuisance of yourself. When your friends or his friends ask you how you are doing, just smile and say that you are doing fine. If you just be yourself and continue on as if though nothing has happened, your ex-boyfriend may start to wonder to himself whether he made a mistake.
He may start asking your friends how you are doing. The best thing to do is to act naturally, be yourself, smile and be happy whenever you are around his and your friends and your ex-boyfriend may start to wonder if maybe it's time to see if he can work things out.
