Zero In On The One

Okay, so you’re not exactly a newbie in the online dating game. In fact, you’re considered a veteran—a professional even. You’ve actually signed up in more than three online dating sites. And in all these years, you’ve met A LOT of people. In fact, you’ve met way too many people.
Truth is, this totally defeats your purpose for joining an online dating service. While you may have no problems meeting people—you’re actually also a member of several social networking sites—this isn’t actually helping you a bit in your search for a love match. You know the difference between online social networking and online dating. With online dating, your goal is not to have 1,547 active friends. You just need one. The one.

Don’t worry, you’re not the only one in this online dating limbo. Many other people have the same problem: getting so many requests for “friendship” from people they have zero interest in. You get email messages from all these people who are complete mismatches. Plus, you’re always wondering if all the details you read on their profiles are even accurate—or true.
What most online dating sites lack is this: quality control. But this is completely inevitable for most online dating services. Why? It’s pretty difficult to control the number—and quality—of people who gain access to you if you have a very public profile, one that everybody and anybody can view. How can you stop 500 average Joes or Janes from contacting you?

This is not to say that there is no potential love match in those 500 Joes or Janes. It is also possible that The One is among those 500. Problem is: How do you even start to go through those 500 messages, names, and faces?
What you need is an online dating site that allows you quality control. How? You keep an online profile that not just anybody can access. They need an invitation to view your profile, so if they receive no invitation—meaning you have no interest in them—then they can’t view your profile and start an exchange with you.

And you are not in any way “limited”. In fact, you can invite anybody you wish (at least these are “anybodys” you like!): friends of friends, that cute new girl in the office, that hunk in the gym, and yes, even members of other online dating services. The key thing here is: You determine who these few, lucky—and quality—people who get to view your profile will be.
No more 500 messages you don’t care to read. No more 500 profiles that make you go “Argh!”

Before you start losing faith in the idea of online dating, consider this: Maybe you’re not doing it the right and safe way? Maybe you need another online dating experience—one that will help you effectively and quickly zero in on The One.

By: Tracey Robinson

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